Society is saturated with double standards. Women can get into the hottest nightclubs for free by looking good while men have to pay a hefty door fee and even heftier bottle service to get a good spot in the club. But men can sleep with numerous women and gain status from it while a woman is shamed to be a whore. What’s up with that?
A woman’s status decreases as she adds more sexual partners to her count while a man’s status increases. Call it unfair and scream at the sky, but that’s what it is. Many women desire alpha men or what some refer to as high-value men. The thing about high-value men is that many women desire them. Men and women know that.
A woman knows that she is competing against many other women for a high-quality man. The statics—take them with a grain of salt—reveal that about 20% of men are sleeping with most women. The reason that’s important to stipulate is that women know a high-quality man has access to many women and most accept that he will have slept with numerous women.
Most women don’t even care about a high-value man’s sexual history, as they’re more concerned about being with him because he offers her something that most men don’t have. So she’s more inclined to overlook or tolerate certain aspects about him to reap the rewards of being with him.
If most women don’t disqualify a high-value man from being a suitor because of numerous partners, why does he?
High-Value Men are Scarce
It comes back to options. Most high-value men have a lot more options in women than what a beautiful woman has in men. If you’re a woman, think about the kind of man you find attractive. He’s probably tall, funny, charming, smart, financially secure (preferably rich) and a has a hundred other great traits. Only a small percentage of the male population falls into that category.
But the world is filled with many women. So a high-value man can choose between a woman who has slept with ten men and a virgin. Who do you think he’s likely to choose? Some people will say that certain men prefer experienced women, but most high-value men want a pure woman. And that means she preferably should not have been touched by other men.
We, men, are territorial. The same way we don’t want an intruder on our property, we definitely don’t want another man touching our woman. It makes us feel special to know that we were her first and possibly only sexual partner.
Women Who Sleep Around are Easy
People value what is scarce. Although I wouldn’t define beautiful women as scarce since plenty of them are around, a beautiful female virgin is highly attractive and rare. A woman who has been with numerous men is deemed as easy to get and doesn’t value her body.
In the old days, most women waited for marriage to lose their virginity. Nowadays, premarital sex has been normalised, but a high-quality man isn’t bound to societal’s norms. He lives in a different realm where he sets the rules and demands women to abide by the highest standards, which he has set. Call that chauvinistic, misogynistic, sexist or whatever else you please, but that’s the reality of a high-quality man.
He knows he can expect that from women because the best ones are competing for his attention. He’s the auctioneer deciding the highest price while women are doing the bidding.
Let’s be real. Most women want a high-quality man. If that’s the case, then, women, you’re going to have to stop sleeping around. Men don’t want to hear about their woman’s sexual performance from their friends, colleagues or strangers.
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