You know that nightclubs, bars and other social events are usually target-rich environments for people looking for sex. But what if that’s not your scene or you haven’t had any luck in those places? You might want to try the places that have worked for me.
Casino
I’m not a gambler, but I enjoy environments where many women congregate. I found that to be at casinos. The best part is that they are alone so you don’t have any distractions from friends. And they’re seated, so you don’t have to run after them.
I wouldn’t approach them if they’re playing at a table, but I have when they’re at the machines. Keep in mind that most of these women are at the machine for entertainment as well, so they won’t mind talking to you.
I’ve met several women at casinos, and getting a drink with them immediately after meeting them, then escalating physically was relatively easy.
You might be pleasantly surprised at the results you get.
I frequented a particular casino on Sundays when it was quiet. But you can visit on Friday and Saturday nights. That’s when you’re likely to see more potential partners, but it is usually nosier and packed on those nights.
Gym
I don’t care about what anyone says about gyms being a creepy place to meet partners. They were a goldmine for me and may be for you if you approach correctly.
Yes, most people at the gym are serious about their workouts. But that doesn’t mean they are not open to a friendly chat. That’s the approach I suggest in that environment. You’re not being a creep who approaches everyone to pick them up, but instead, you’re a friendly person chatting with people. Be seen talking to people of your gender as well.
That’s not to say that a direct approach can’t work, but you’re risking too much. If the person rejects you, you might feel awkward the next time you see them or they might not want to come back to that gym because they want to avoid you.
Opt for a neutral approach.
I usually approach women when they have finished their workout or are stretching or doing ab exercises. You can ask how their training is going, the ab exercises they recommend or make a unique comment about something you noticed about them.
Remember, you’re just having a friendly chat. If you two hit it off, it’s not uncommon for that person to suggest you take their number. Exchanging contacts with you will be natural because they’re enjoying talking to you.
Also, the neutral approach lets you find out if the person has a partner. For all you know, they could be working out at the gym at that very moment.
Clothing stores
I’ve met many women at clothing stores. After all, that’s where they hang out. When I use the natural approach in clothing stores, I usually ask them the kind of shirt they think would look good on me or their advice on buying the right clothing, then steer the conversation to getting to know her.
The direct approach at clothing stores has worked for me, especially on milfs. They were pleasantly surprised and gladly accepted an instant date with me.
Women are usually in a good mood when they’re shopping for clothing, so you’re likely to receive good reactions if you approach them respectfully.
Final Thoughts
Don’t think that the three places I mentioned above are not ideal if you want to get physical with a woman. I’ve met women at casinos, gyms and clothing stores, then were all over them after the instant date and drinks after chatting for a while.
The outcome will be determined by the attractive qualities you display, the comfort you built with her and your confidence to escalate.
Good luck!
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