A man is considered a player if he sleeps with many women, yet a woman is stigmatised as a whore for sleeping with many men. It doesn’t seem fair, does it? Double standards run rampant in society, and it’s up to you to accept them or live in a parallel universe. The chances of our sociocultural system changing to suit your desires are slim.
Men accept that they have to work hard to provide for their families while a beautiful woman can marry a rich man who will satisfy all of her needs. Many things are unfair, and the first step to making the system work for you is to accept it.
A man’s value consists of his wealth, wisdom, experience and maturity. His physical appearance also plays a role, but a rich, overweight man can find a woman easier than a fit, destitute man. A woman’s value is in her looks and purity.
Men notice a woman’s looks first and then give her an opportunity to demonstrate her personality. If she’s beautiful and has a decent personality, most men will have no problem marrying her. The only deterrence may be the number of men she has bedded.
A woman who is beautiful and a virgin has a much higher societal value than a beautiful woman who has slept with multiple men. That’s because men are territorial, and we don’t want our assets passed around and used by others.
A man who has options in partners prefers a beautiful, pure, traditional woman. A woman who sleeps around isn’t traditional. She’s a whore. Most men don’t want to be with a whore, even the men who sleep around. A woman’s value drops with each man she sleeps with. It also drops every year that she ages.
Many women also don’t want to be with a man who had sex with multiple women. But most accept that a man who is successful, tall and handsome is in demand and can have his pick. Beautiful women also have options. The difference between beautiful women and successful men is that there is plenty of the former and only a small percentage of the population is the latter.
Beautiful women are everywhere, and successful men who have their act together are a minority of the male population. Most of the beautiful women are competing for a small group of men. That’s the reason only the top guys are getting laid while the average men are struggling to get dates.
Since the top men have many women after them, they can choose who to marry. And most of them want a woman with a low number of sexual partners, preferably none.
If you’re curious about the type of woman that most men regard to be at the pinnacle of society, here it is: She is feminine, friendly, submissive, traditional, virgin and mentally stable. She is also without debt and tattoos.
Accept the system the way it is so you can use it to your advantage and get what you want.
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