Some days you want to get off, but your man might not be around, or you want to perfect the art of self-pleasuring. After all, who needs to count on a man for pleasure when you’ve got a vibrator. Owning one is one thing, but knowing how to use it is another. We compiled simple techniques that you can learn about how to orgasm with a vibrator.
Rub Your Clit
Nothing will get you faster to orgasm than stimulating your clitoris and the g-spot at the same time. Once you’ve inserted the vibrator into your vagina to work on your g-spot, you should rub your clitoris to get dual stimulation.
Sure, there are rabbit vibrators that do that for you, but nothing is more stimulating than skin in contact with skin. Use two or three fingers to rub your clitoris in a circular motion – the same way a DJ would scratch a record.
Try this out: Rub the side of your clitoris or above. Some women have found indirect clitoral stimulation to be arousing.
Use The Settings
The settings on a vibrator are there for a reason. Using a vibrator to orgasm isn’t one-size-fits-all. Some like it fast and rough, and others like it gentle and slow. Figure out what modes you enjoy so that you can use the settings to your advantage. There are different speeds and patterns that you can choose.
If you’re a newbie, you should take it easy. Try it at a slow speed and a gentle pattern. If you feel that it’s not stimulating enough, you can always crank it up. Some women might want the hard-pounding mode to get off. Each to their own.
You can also incorporate variations. As an example, start in a slow mode, then increase the speed until you feel that the vibrator is banging your brains out. Then, you could slow it down so that it feels stimulating and teasing. After you’ve tortured yourself enough with the teasing, turn it up and go for a wild ride.
Make Yourself Wet
Of course, your pussy should be wet, but that’s not what I mean. Most vibrators are waterproof because ladies like to indulge in me-time when they’re in the bath. It’s the perfect time to whip out your bad boy if you think about it. Nothing sets the mood better than candles, a bath filled with foam and a glass of wine.
To do this technique, your vibrator will need to have a suction cup. Although this technique is about stimulating your clitoris, it’s more about setting a mood that will get you off.
The first step is to stick your vibrator on the tub wall. Then, kneel down in front of the vibrator and grip the sides of the tub. Press your body against the vibrator before you slide up and down it so that the vibrator rubs your clitoris. Do that until it drives you crazy and you can’t take it anymore. Then, stick it in your pussy and let it rip.
Find The Right Vibrator
If the above techniques have not helped you to orgasm, then the problem might be your vibrator. I’ve mentioned the speeds and modes, but that’s only part of the equation.
You need to figure out which vibrator works for you. Some prefer the bullet vibrators, small and pointy, while others like a thick and long dildo.
The other important feature to consider is the material of the vibrator. Some women want to feel that the vibrator is like a real dick, so they opt for a silicon option. Other women might want one that’s made of steel, and some don’t want it to be too hard or too short, so they choose the hard plastic.
Test out several so that you can see what feels best for you. Once you’ve found the perfect one, try the above techniques again.
Try Not To Orgasm
That sounds counter-intuitive, but things that work, usually, are. When you try hard to accomplish something, it might end up feeling like work. You get so obsessed with reaching the goal that you forget to enjoy the process. In there lies the problem.
Having an orgasm is all about enjoying the process. If you do that, you’re much more likely to reach an orgasm. So, what do I mean by trying not to reach an orgasm?
It doesn’t mean that you should cross your legs and hope that one will sneak up on you. Use your vibrator but not with the intention of reaching an orgasm. Instead, let your vibrator touch every part of your body. Enjoy the feeling when you rub it against your nipples. Slide it in between your legs and squeeze it with your thighs.
Let the vibrator rub your pussy in circular motion without sticking it inside. Run it over your ass. Let it tickle you, excite you and mesmerize you. Lie on your back and slide the vibrator from one side of your neck to the other. You might be surprised as to how a vibrator can pleasure you when you work your neck.
Bonus Tip About How To Orgasm With A Vibrator
There’s nothing wrong with getting a man involved in the experience. It doesn’t mean that you’re going to have sex with him (you can if you want), but having a hand can help you to orgasm.
Try BDSM. Get a guy to tie you up and have him work the vibrator. He should be able to do what he wants, as long as it’s pleasurable for you. Not having control of what someone is doing to you can be a big turn-on, especially if he uses the vibrator well.
Otherwise, lie on a bed and put two pillows under your bum so that you’re propped up. Tell your man that he should do his best to lick your pussy. While he’s busy down there, you should use your vibrator across your nipples. Rub it back and forth and around the nipple. If he knows what he’s doing, he should also suck your nipples.
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