I’m not naive to think that my finances aren’t correlated to my sex life. In fact, the more money I have, the more access I have to sex. That’s especially true if you are interested in dating women of a certain calibre. Unless you have incredible charm and can get women when you’re unemployed and broke, you will have to improve your finances to better your options in women.
Just think about how not having money affects your dating life. Not only do you have less confidence when your finances aren’t up to scratch, but you can’t travel to meet the type of partner you want. You can’t pursue certain date activities, and you might feel emasculated if she pays out of pity for you.
You might feel that you don’t deserve a certain person because of your financial situation, so you’re apprehensive about approaching them.
Improve your finances for yourself, not to have more sex or to please the opposite gender. When your finances are in order, your back is straighter, a smile appears on your face more often, and your eyes sparkle. Everything improves with more money, even your health.
Sell Your Stuff
A quick solution to improving your finances is selling the stuff in your home. Finding a higher-paying job or getting a raise takes time. You need an immediate solution. The stuff in your house is taking up space but is also hindering you from the money you could have.
Walk into every room of your house with a pen and paper. List all the items that you haven’t used in a while, don’t need and can definitely sell. There should be plenty—items such as clothing, extra TVs, golf clubs, vases and gadgets.
Upload the items to a classified advertisement website.
Take Any Job
If you’re struggling financially, you don’t have the option of being picky. Don’t think that you’re too good for certain jobs or that they’re below you. That attitude isn’t going to help you. There’s no shame in making an honest living, regardless of the position.
Look for jobs outside your industry. It’s only temporary until you find your ideal job. But in the meantime, you need to increase your income. Having money coming in will boost your confidence and make you feel that you’re progressing. Progression serves as a motivator that will help you keep going.
Stop Taking Out Debt
It’s impossible to have money when you’re paying creditors. If that’s your current situation, don’t take out more debt. You don’t get out of a hole by digging a deeper one.
Credit cards are not doing you any favours. They might provide a temporary solution but are causing you long-term distress. Stop paying for things on credit, especially groceries.
Reduce Your Expenses
Besides selling your stuff, you can do yourself a massive favour by reducing your expenses. After compiling a budget, you will have numerous expenses that you can reduce.
You can save a significant amount of money by cutting out takeaways, clothing, subscriptions and entertainment from your budget. Look at your other expenses and find a way to reduce them. It’s possible. I know because I did that, and it helped me to save money.
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