Back when I was in my 20s, I knew little about the type of woman that I wanted. I knew she had to be hot, but I wasn’t exactly certain about what her personality should be like or her values. Now that I’m 40, I know exactly how she should be. That knowledge came to me through dating. And to acquire that knowledge, I needed time.
Also, back then, I had limited experience with women. It was only at the age of 25 that I started approaching women. Ten years after that, I had met more than a thousand of them. Throughout those engagements with women, I built confidence, gained experience in attracting them and discovered the traits that would make me appealing to them.
To know the kind of woman that I wanted and become the best version of myself, I needed time and experience. I’m definitely more mature, confident and successful now than when I was in my 20s. Strangely enough, those are some of the things that women look for in a man.
For most women, I’m more attractive now than when I was in my 20s because I lacked key characteristics that they find attractive. Also, most women want a dominant man in bed. They want him to take charge and teach them things. Again, this requires experience. And older men usually have more experience in bed than young men.
Most young men also don’t have a significant amount of money. And that’s understandable. When I was 25, I was two years out of university and had worked as an entry-level accountant. In two years, I couldn’t have saved up a lot of money on my low salary.
But as I gained experience, I got paid better. Money is one of the reasons that many women accept that their future partner will be older than them. They understand that most men in the 20s don’t have money, so they choose men who are 15, 20 or even more years older than them.
Older men have had more time to obtain serious money, and many young women would rather opt for an older husband who can provide for them the lifestyle they want as opposed to a young man who they will struggle with financially.
Some young women have daddy issues. And they heal from their trauma by being with an older man who they see as a father figure. Some of them even like to call the man ‘daddy’ during sex. It’s a fantasy for many young women who grew up without a father or did not have a good relationship with him.
If you are a man who is 40 years and older, don’t feel apprehensive about starting a conversation with a 20-something-year-old woman because you think that she could never find you attractive and may think that you’re creepy.
A lot of young women would much rather be with an experienced gentleman who is confident, mature, experienced and has sorted his life out in every way possible, including financially, and knows what he wants and goes for it. That is highly attractive to women, and many young men can’t offer them that because they lack experience and haven’t had enough time to obtain it.
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