You’re not the only one looking for sex during autumn and winter. Plenty of singles and some people in relationships are in need of nookie just as much as you.
But now that autumn/fall, whatever you want to call it, is upon us, most people are avoiding the outdoors. The weather is unpleasant during this period, and it’s much nicer to be next to a fire or wrapped up in a blanket.
When the need arises to have your stick polished or your hole moistened, you need to find someone to satisfy your needs. Sexual needs don’t stop just because it’s cold outside. In fact, many people want more intimacy during cold periods to warm themselves up and satisfy their increased libido.
Don’t expect to find as many people on the streets as you would in summer. Also, many people are covered in baggy clothing and coats, which makes it difficult to gauge the shape of their bodies.
Although you might find some attractive people on the street, your chances lower significantly during autumn and winter. So if not the street, then where can you find someone for a hookup?
Try the library or a bookshop, especially ones that serve coffee. These places are gold mines. The best part about these two spots is that it’s common to spot a beautiful, intelligent stranger who has cuddled up to a book while sipping coffee.
Coffee consumption increases during cold periods. You’ll find that many coffee shops are packed with people. With noise levels increasing in these places, they almost become like a daytime social venue that provides a platform for you start a conversation with the tables around you.
In such a setting, it’s easy to pass a comment to an attractive stranger, such as, you had to get out of the cold and try the awesome coffee that the place serves. You’d be surprised as to the number of people who will engage you and add to your comment. No witty remarks or pickup lines are necessary. Keep it simple.
Sure, you can always log onto an app and try internet dating, but nothing beats meeting somebody in person. You can see their actual height, hear their voice and gauge how you respond to their energy. You can’t do those things over an app.
Next place: gym. People stay warm by working out during winter. I’ve gone on several dates with women I met at the gym. The members are likely to be in great shape and value their health and fitness. I usually wait for the woman to finish her workout or when she’s stretching to approach.
The person you want to approach will likely have more time for you after they’re done training. You can even approach them when they’re walking out. I’ve done that several times.
Supermarkets are a great place to have a chat. Everybody needs to pick up groceries, even during cold weather, so you’re bound to find someone in the aisles. It’s not weird to start a conversation with someone you don’t know while they’re shopping. I’ve done it plenty of times and not one woman freaked out or said it was strange. Some were flattered that I chatted them up.
Whatever you do during autumn and winter, make sure that you’re taking action. That requires you to go outside and start conversations with strangers if you want to rub up against someone. Regardless of where you feel comfortable meeting people, just make sure to put yourself out there. You never know who’s going to take the bait.
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