Women are the gatekeepers to sex, and men are the gatekeepers to relationships and marriage. What does that mean? A man will decide if a woman gets married or not. A woman can decide whenever she wants to get married, but without a man proposing, she’s not getting married.
In the beginning stages when a man gets to know a woman, she will decide when they have sex. If it was up to the guy, they wouldn’t even go on a date before they had sex. We, men, don’t need a reason to have sex. It’s a new day, and that’s a good enough reason for us.
Whether a man is looking for a relationship or to casually date a woman, he screens her for certain qualities and behaviours. This pertains more to when he wants to settle down, but it can also apply if he’s looking for a one-night stand.
Some men might find women who smoke unattractive. Other men don’t want to date a single mom. Tattoos on a woman are no-no for many men. But there are men who will sleep with a single mom, even if she smokes and has a tattoo. Women who have slept with many men are not attractive to guys who are looking for a wife, but many men will sleep with a woman who is a slut.
So if all of those traits/characteristics and qualities aren’t the worst, since men will have some form of relationship with those women, then what is the one quality that completely turns men off?
A masculine woman.
There is nothing more unattractive to a man than a woman who is loud, obnoxious, uncooperative, competitive, arrogant and hard-headed. Apart from competitive, the other traits I mentioned are the ones you would find in a jerk.
Straight men don’t want women who behave, sound or look like men. That makes our penises shrivel up. She is so unattractive to us that we will think long and hard about having a one-night stand with her because it’s like having sex with a man.
The bad news is that many women have become masculine. There are several reasons for this. Some of the reasons I’ve seen is that they want to be independent, so they conditioned themselves into masculinity, even if unintentionally or they’re unaware of it, through their lifestyle.
There are also certain careers that women pursue that condition them to be masculine because they have to compete and argue with men.
What’s the opposite of a masculine woman and the type we prefer? Feminine.
A feminine woman has power over a man, even if he may not want to admit it. He’s more gentle with her with his voice and touch. His voice is calm and touch delicate. He’s not as aggressive and combative with her as he would be with a masculine woman. He definitely cares for her much more than he does a masculine woman. He respects her.
Most women love it when they are in their feminine nature. It’s where they belong. Many masculine women admit that they don’t want to exude masculine energy. But circumstances or choices led them to that lifestyle. And it’s sad.
No masculine man wants his woman to match his energy. We don’t want to come home to a woman who challenges us or is constantly trying to prove that she’s our equal. We want a submissive woman who creates peace in our home.
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