Marrying a woman who’s had many bed partners

Long gone are the days when you can expect your future wife to be a virgin. Sure, that exists. Some women are very traditional and will not give it up before the wedding day, no matter how much money or good looks you have.

In the so-called modern world, many women have been with several sexual partners. It’s not uncommon for a twenty-one-year old woman to have slept with, at least, five men. Just think about that. Five penises have been inside her vagina and possibly her mouth, which you’re going to kiss. Yuck!

Personally, the fewer men a woman has been with, the more attractive she is. There’s nothing attractive about a slut. Although many women think that it’s okay to have multiple sexual partners, many men are not okay with it. At least, men who have options will rather opt for a woman with little bed experience than one who could probably win a rodeo without having ever participated before.

Virgins are the best, but they’re rare. I would love to marry a virgin. There’s nothing more attractive than an inexperienced woman. Most men think so, too. And no amount of shaming from sluts will ever make them change their mind. At least, I hope that’s the case. We, as men, need to stand for what we believe and not let shaming tactics sway our values.

So, how many sexual partners is too many? That’s subjective. It’s what you’re comfortable with. Personally, I wouldn’t be happy if my wife was anything but a virgin. But there is no way I could be interested in someone who has had more than one sexual partner.

If you’re with a woman who’s been with five or more men, you’ve got competition. I don’t mention that to refer to your ego but rather as it relates to your chances of having a successful marriage.

Your wife, who’s had several sexual partners, is going to pit the sex she’s had with you against her previous experiences. Sex is very important to most women who have had several sexual partners. If it wasn’t, why did they sleep with several men?

There’s a term relating to this topic called pair bonding. It refers to a person’s ability to form a close relationship with another person. Some studies have suggested that a woman who’s been with many sexual partners is unlikely to establish a close relationship with one particular man and stay with him when times are tough.

Is pair bonding a real thing? I don’t know. I’m not sure there’s scientific evidence that it impacts relationships as it relates to sex. But I do believe that a woman who’s had several partners is less likely to value one particular man.

Some people might say, ‘She didn’t like the other partners. But she eventually settled for Mr Right.’ Okay, if that’s the case, why did she sleep with several men until she met Mr Right? Why didn’t she save herself for Mr Right?

There are always red flags in the beginning with the person who’s not right for you. She chose to overlook those minor, but so important, details. And she racked up a notch count. Then, she eventually met Mr Right after having slept with five or ten men. How convenient?

I believe there’s a direct correlation between the number of men a woman has slept with and the chances she’s likely to leave a man. The more bed partners she’s had, the higher the chances are she’ll leave when the poo hits the fan. That’s just my take. What do I know?

But the one thing I’m certain of is that there’s nothing attractive about a woman who has had numerous bed partners. Absolutely nothing. Sorry, girl. You’re just not the type that real men choose.

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