It’s not a secret that men think about sex often. Sex isn’t on their minds all the time, contrary to popular belief, but it does take up a significant amount of their time. There are numerous fantasies that men conjure, such as women dressing up in nurse outfits to domination. Numerous sexual fantasies have popped into men’s heads, but there are a few common ones that keep recurring. Most of the kinky sex fantasies that men have obsessed about either remain in their heads or, in some cases, men have expressed their desires to their partners. So, what are common kinky sex fantasies that men want women to explore?
Threesome
If you’d like to give your man the ultimate 40th birthday present, then you should invite your hot friend into your bedroom. Why are men so obsessed with threesomes? There are a few reasons. One of them is that the only thing that’s better than having sex with one woman is having sex with two. Another reason is that some men are tired of having sex with one woman, so they want to dip their stick into a new vagina. There’s also the desire to see your woman get intimate with another one.
The reason that it remains a fantasy for some men is that they’re too afraid of asking their partner to engage in a threesome. They’re worried that that woman will be offended, especially if the man wishes for her sister or friend to join them in the bedroom. There’s also a fear men have that makes them believe they will fall for the third party and want to leave their partner if they go through with the threesome.
Anal
So far, you shouldn’t be surprised about what you’ve read. When a threesome isn’t on most men’s minds, then it’s anal sex. Man men enjoy having sex from the rear, but they also like exploring new holes. If a man doesn’t have anal sex with his partner, it makes him wonder what it would be like.
There’s something arousing about exploring uncharted territory, especially when it’s two centimetres from the hole you’re used to sticking in your penis. Men who haven’t had anal sex wonder what how an anus feels compares to a vagina. They are curious about the texture of the anus and the tightness. Some fantasize about their woman screaming when they stick it into a tight anus.
Some men are also afraid of raising the topic due to the fear of physically hurting their women. Anal sex is unfamiliar to some of them, so even if they got permission, they’re afraid of engagement.
Voyeurism
Don’t be surprised to find out that your man would love to see you fondle another woman. That’s one of the appeals of a threesome. In some cases, men don’t want to participate in the sexual encounter; they prefer to watch. By not being active in the encounter, they feel restricted or deprived of touching those women, so they crave them even more.
Voyeurism is gaining sexual pleasure from watching a person engage in sexual activity. That doesn’t necessarily mean watching two people have sex. Some men enjoy watching a woman masturbate or take a sensual shower. Most voyeurism stems from watching porn. Some sex experts have stated that the drawback of it is isolation since some men don’t participate in the activity or share their fantasies.
Submission
One of the reasons that Fifty Shades of Grey was so popular is that it delved into the topic of BDSM (bondage, discipline, submission, masochism). There are alpha men who sometimes want to free themselves from the shackles of always being masculine, superior and dominant, even for a few minutes, and engage in a practise that enables them to be a passive participant.
A fantasy is all about living the contrary to your reality, so dominant men want to live in a parallel universe when in the bedroom, which means being tied up, spanked and teased. One of the reasons that men love submission is due to surrendering control. They give a woman power over them to control them as they please.
Role-Playing
The truth is that most men will think about having sex with another woman regardless of how much they love their partner. That also pertains to women, and it’s completely normal. It’s not always a specific woman who men want to have sex with but rather a character.
While seeing their woman in nurse and teacher outfits are the common fantasies, some men also fantasize about a family member. Role-playing allows the man to play out a fantasy in front of his eyes the way a movie plays out from a novel. They get to engage the story by participating and taking a lead role. The outfits make the fantasy more mesmerising, and the dialogue makes it appear real.
Some men have a fantasy of being with Catwoman or Wonder Woman. Since the likelihood of them having sex with those actresses is slim, they’ll get satisfaction from being with a woman who resembles those appearances.
Exhibitionism
This is a big one. It’s something that usually requires quite a bit of risk, which is the reason for the excitement. There’s nothing more exciting than doing something that one shouldn’t and risk getting caught. Exhibitionism is the act of exposing a part of one’s body that’s not normally shown in public. It also includes having sex in a public place.
Having sex in an unusual place is exciting, but risking getting caught at that place makes it more exciting. Exposing your skin or having sex in public could lead to legal consequences, but it makes for an interesting story. The more risk, the more interesting the story. That’s one of the reasons that men fantasize about it.
Exhibitionists who are afraid of getting caught in public can fulfill their fantasies by walking naked in front of a window. Another option is having sex at a friend’s house.
Different Positions
Doggy style and missionary might be fun for a while, but men want to try new things in the bedroom. That includes spicing things up by trying new positions. Some of those positions include the London Bridge, the X Position and Butter Churner.
Much like anal sex, new positions make some men feel that they’re trying something new in their sex life. That makes them excited about the encounter and can lead to them performing better.
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