In today’s world, where many people sleep around and have high body counts, you’re a black sheep if you’re a virgin. Some virgins are afraid to mention their status because of shaming tactics employed by those who believe they’re superior because of their notch count.
If you’re a female virgin, well done to you. If you’re male and saving yourself for marriage, you have tremendous willpower. Men value pure women. Ladies, you are more valuable in the dating marketplace as a virgin than a woman who has slept with several men.
That’s because men are territorial, and they don’t want other men to have used their assets. A female virgin is like a brand new sports car—men are prepared to pay top dollar to possess it. Whereas a woman who has been with several partners is like a used car. High-calibre men are likely to avoid a used car and instead will search the marketplace for a car in mint condition.
Whether you’re a man or a woman, saving yourself for marriage is noble. It’s something that doesn’t happen often these days and will make you an outsider. You want to be an outsider. Never be part of the herd because the herd is always wrong. Always.
Your husband will cherish and respect you more because you saved yourself for him. He will be proud to be with an honourable woman. If you’re a man, be proud of yourself for gifting your wife your virginity. Don’t think that you’re less of a man, and any woman who disdains you because of your lack of experience in bed is worth avoiding. Good riddance to such women.
Although sex is a big part of marriage, your partner is likely to be understanding of your inexperience for a certain period. Once you start getting jiggy with your spouse, your performance should improve over time to satisfy them more.
If you’re saving yourself for marriage, your ideal partner is likely to be another virgin. It’s possible to wed another virgin, but the odds aren’t in your favour. Don’t be put off by someone who ticks all the boxes but has slept with one or two people. It’s not the end of the world.
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