Some studies show that men cheat more than women while others reveal the opposite. Arriving at the correct conclusion is difficult and may be unnecessary. What’s more important to know is if it’s okay to cheat on your partner.
I’m not for cheating, and I’ve never cheated on any of my partners because I don’t want them to cheat on me. However, I have kissed women with boyfriends who cheated on them. The women were open to further intimacy because they wanted to get back at their boyfriends. And I felt that since the guy didn’t have respect for their relationship, then why should I?
If your partner cheated on you, is it okay for you to cheat on them? Two wrongs don’t make a right and if you feel betrayed, it might be wise to consider leaving that relationship. Getting back at them could build more tension and resentment between the two of you, leading to bigger problems.
Revenge cheating, when you cheat to get back at your cheating partner, can make you more miserable. The reason you were so upset about the cheating is because the person you thought you knew turned out to be worse. You’re disappointed in them.
Well, when you revenge cheat, you become exactly like the person who cheated on you. You’re not any better than them, and you could be extremely disappointed in yourself for stooping low while hurt.
After you’ve been cheated on, determine whether you could forgive that person and re-establish trust. If not, then it’s time for you to move on.
Don’t contribute to the cheating culture if you frown upon it. That’s when you become a part of it. And if you go down the road too far, before you know it, you won’t be able to recognise yourself anymore because you’ve become a completely different person, one you won’t even like.
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