Ask most women how much money a man must make in order for them to date him, and they’ll say more than them. They’ll also want him to make the first move, pay for the date and be dominant in bed. Essentially, they want a leader.
Since that’s so, the relationship dynamic is made up of a leader and a follower. A woman can’t expect to be equal to a man when she wants him to be a leader. If she wants an equal, then she must also court the man, pay for half of the bill and be as equally as dominant as him in bed. That doesn’t work. Two people can’t dominate each other. One person dominates the other.
And when a woman dominates the man, meaning, she makes more money than him, she makes the first move and handles him in bed, that’s when most women are not attracted to such a man. Again, they want a leader. They cannot expect to have a leader and an equal. That doesn’t make sense.
Somebody has to be in charge of the relationship and make the final decision. It’s like a president of a country. He may consult with his team about a decision, but ultimately, he makes the final call.
A woman who wants a leader is looking for an alpha man. And that type of man is looking for a feminine woman. He doesn’t want to come home to somebody who argues with him, is loud and constantly competes with him. It doesn’t mean she is not allowed to voice her concerns, get upset or believe that her opinion matters. He must respect and she must do the same.
The easiest way for a woman to show respect towards her man is by using her natural energy—femininity. I know that some women are masculine, and those women are a big turn-off to alpha men. They don’t want to butt heads with another man.
When a woman is in her feminine energy and she likes a man, she will submit to him. That means let him take over and be in charge of the relationship.
Most women want the man to be in charge, but he has to have leadership qualities. Some men have those qualities, but certain women won’t let them show it because they want to be their equal. They have to let their guard down and submit to him so that he can take charge.
When a woman submits to a man and he takes charge, he has the opportunity to fulfil his role as a man. He’ll be more attractive to her by showing his masculine traits such as protecting her, treating her like a lady and making her feel special.
An alpha man does not want to do female chores. He believes that a woman should do them. So she cannot expect him to cook, clean and do grocery shopping. That doesn’t mean he shouldn’t cover for her when she doesn’t have the time to do those chores, but those are her responsibilities. His responsibilities are to provide for the household financially, protect the household and generally provide the best possible life for them.
When a woman doesn’t have to worry about bills and she’s got a man who loves and protects her, that’s when she’s the happiest. But she must also offer value to his life by providing him peace, food and sex. When both parties fulfil their roles, a relationship stands the highest chance of lasting because they’re happy with each other.
The alpha male and feminine woman relationship has worked for centuries. Even today, couples who adopt this dynamic have a better chance of staying together than the new world nonsense that some couples are trying, which doesn’t work in most cases.
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